Be the Soul, Love Soul to Soul
Reflections on the wisdom of Love
Good love gone bad
When couples marry, it’s a quintessential moment of dreams come true. When they divorce, it’s a quintessential moment of dreams gone bad. Divorce has become the norm. But what if the norm was for love to deepen, grow, and become consistently more satisfying? The fact is, it can, but it takes a willingness to be the soul and to love soul to soul.
Waking in a dream
Over twenty years ago, I dreamed my then-sweetheart and I were floating in a boat that he was 
paddling. In many ways this man was the love of my life. Suddenly I realized he was taking us in circles. He was too focused on navigating the turns to realize – or care – that we weren’t going anywhere.
I had been struggling unsuccessfully to connect more deeply with this man for years. This dream told me it was time to move on. It told me I would never find what I wanted in a lover with him – a soul-level connection. As deep as our love was, it was not as deep as I wanted it to be and never would be.
Leaving him was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Since, I have had the privilege of loving men that were more open to exploring new vistas with me. I married such a man, not by accident, but by design. Recently, my husband and I found a relationship teacher who points the way to soul level connection. Since meeting Jeffrey Armstrong, our marriage hasn’t been the same. We call it good love gone great.
Soul-level relating
Jeffrey Armstrong teaches that “Soul Mate” is something you do, not someone you find. I am sponsoring his UltiMate™ Relationship Seminar in Colorado Springs so more of us can learn to Soul Mate.
I am sponsoring a seminar, but what I’m really promoting is being the soul and relating soul to soul. I am promoting opening the heart and surrendering in love. I am sponsoring this seminar as a means toward that end.
Another dream
Last night I dreamt I was telling people that Jeffrey is what he says he is: A Western Master of Eastern Wisdom. Eventually I put down my efforts and returned to enjoying the depth of his knowledge myself.
I know not everyone wants a soul-level relationship. Many would rather relate superficially, play it safe, and not expose themselves too deeply. Many of those who do want to develop their relationships just want coping strategies. I have no criticisms of strategic information – in fact, I teach strategies myself. But strategic relating does not compare with soul mating.
If you want more than just strategies in your relationships – if you want to learn how to have soul level interactions in your intimate – and other – relationships, I will gladly do my humble best to tell you all I know. But the best option is for you to hear it from the one who is teaching me. Please put Jeffrey Armstrong on your calendar this month – see him at his various appearances. Take The UltiMate™ Relationship Seminar. Last month, my husband and I went to Vancouver to hear what he had to say. Please join us in Colorado Springs.
Read Meryl's article: A Surprising Way Into a Man's Heart
Read Meryl's poem on feeding her joy in her everyday life: A bliss-bubble Monday
Read Meryl's review of the SpeakStrong in Love TeleSeminar:
The Three Conversations You Need to Have With Your Intimate (or Prospective Intimate) Partner: A guide to enhanced communication for deeper intimacy
Meryl Runion's summary of the SpeakStrong in Love TeleSeminar:
What Yoga Can Teach Us About Successful Relationships: Vedic Tantra for the Spiritually Aware - How to Create Your UltiMate™ Relationship
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