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	<title>SpeakStrong in Love</title>
	<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog</link>
	<description>By Meryl Runion and SpeakStrong, Inc.</description>
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		<title>Save your best self for each other</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s general wisdom among healthcare practitioners that says you don&#8217;t treat your own family. My husband figured out why. We had been trying to schedule my latest consultation with him for weeks, but other things took precedence.  Then he realized that the reason why practitioners shouldn&#8217;t treat their own family is because they too often [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/11/22/save-your-best-self-for-each-other/</link>
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		<title>What is NIA&#8217;s Carlos Rosas full of? Adventures in perception.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I can tell winter is coming because my NIA orders are on the rise. I was a hiking fool for a while, but I&#8217;m happy to be back to my NIA routine.
Two of my friends had interesting perceptions of NIA co-founder Carlos Rosas when they first danced to NIA Unplugged. One friend said when she [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/11/21/what-is-nias-carlos-rosas-full-of-adventures-in-perception/</link>
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		<title>He slipped something into her coffee that tasted divine. She wondered what it was, and he confessed it was love.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[My husband did this this morning. Unlike the date rape drug, it&#8217;s legal. And it made me want him.
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		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/08/26/he-slipped-something-into-her-coffee-that-tasted-divine-she-wondered-what-it-was-and-he-confessed-it-was-love/</link>
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		<title>She disregarded what she thought in favor of what she saw and enjoyed a secret last laugh</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever discovered that a sweetheart wasn&#8217;t who you thought they were, and looked back to realize they showed their colors all along? It&#8217;s so easy in early love relationships to see who we want to see. Then, as the &#8220;in-loveness&#8221; fades and we are faced with a mere mortal, the dynamic continues&#8230;only now [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/29/she-disregarded-what-she-thought-in-favor-of-what-she-saw-and-enjoyed-a-secret-last-laugh/</link>
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		<title>Perfect balance</title>
		<description><![CDATA[“So be it,” says she. “So think it,” says he. “So do it,” says another. And all feels right with the world.
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		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/28/perfect-balance/</link>
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		<title>She played at work and worked at play and wondered why nothing worked.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I playfully about remind each other to do things. For example, if he forgets to close the closet door, he finds the most interesting things in his jacket pockets. Sure beats nagging.
Turning work into play…and getting results…is delightful art. And turning play into work is a destructive one…and one that we too [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/27/she-played-at-work-and-worked-at-play-and-wondered-why-nothing-worked/</link>
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		<title>The kettle and the pot are more alike than I knew</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I paused to catch my breath on my ascent while hiking yesterday and reflected on a friend who is so absorbed in her personal drama that her dialogue is dominated by complaints about how she&#8217;s not getting the love she wants. I was there with her, loving her, but she couldn&#8217;t feel it or appreciate [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/06/the-kettle-and-the-pot-are-both-black/</link>
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		<title>The invitation to joy</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes my friends complain about their spouses about not sharing the intimacy they want. They pull and maneuver and pressure and plot to get their beloveds to engage. Funny thing. It doesn&#8217;t work.
But what does work is when they decide they will be responsible to create their own joy. When their sweeties feel both the [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/05/the-invitation-to-joy/</link>
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		<title>The power of invitations</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s an amazing thing &#8211; men seem to like invitations better than demands! Who knew? Something about pressure that shuts the heart down. Something about feeling like a disappointment that takes the fun out of playing. 
My friends and I have been practicing the power of invitations. Not invitations that are really disguised demands. Invitations [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/07/04/the-power-of-invitations/</link>
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		<title>femininspired self-expression</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Lee and I had shared several hours together when she told me, her friends think she&#8217;s crazy. They accuse her of having done an 180 degree turn. But she hasn&#8217;t turned from who she is. She turned in how she expresses herself.
She was always a bit of an adventurer, but now she&#8217;s expanding her horizons. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.speakstronginlove.com/blog/2009/06/12/femininspired-self-expression/</link>
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